What Men Want!

Today, we have some problems that might have already been problems and we just didn't know it. Or maybe we did! The problem is that most men want to have their cake and eat yours too. Yes that's right, many men have appetites that go beyond having one wife or one girlfriend.  

These days, you can find a man with a wife, a girlfriend and looking for more. It's like who told these men it was okay to over indulge in cookies and cake just because? I guess the answer lies in us. When I say us, I mean women. Yup, this one is on us ladies!

We have come to a place where we allow men to have wives and have us too. To have girlfriends and still sex us up whenever. Despite the fact that we desire more and at the end the day he goes home to her and takes her on all of the expensive trips, we still allow him to have a slice in between full course meals.

We have created a culture where men are allowed to treat us any kind of way. A culture where settling is the new norm and we make ourselves feel better by convincing ourselves that sex is all we want from him too. 

The only problem here is that when he goes and marries the one he loves, we are left looking stupid and feeling as empty as the day we decided all we were good enough for was sex. 

It's unfortunate that instead of sexing single men, we allow married and boo'd up men to intrigue us. These men are literally using us for what we can give and without words, letting us we aren't good enough to be the main women in their lives.  

Ladies, it's about time we stop settling and start letting them know, they can have their cake, but they can't eat ours too. Besides, there are some guys out there who are single single and ready to mingle mingle.