Sex & More

In 2018 the dating scene is almost non-existent. You typically skip getting to know the guy or girl and go straight to the bedroom. 

With more women educating themselves and taking on an independent attitude about life; relationships have been placed on the back burner. 

Furthermore; with so many women discovering their own healthy sexual appetites, having sex before really getting to know each other is at an all time high. 

This new attitude is causing some problems though. Many women feel pressured to either give up the cookie or watch the man walk away. This happens because men don't have to wait for sex anymore. I mean what you won't do, ten other women will. 

If we choose to have sex prematurely, are we settling? Don't we want to date a person and at least learn their last name before we allow them into our loving bed?

Sex is great and ain't nothing wrong with having a healthy sexual appetite, but if we're looking for "MORE" out of a man or woman than sex, then we might want to consider laying off the "Netflix and Chill" nights and instead going out on real dates. 

Dinner and a movie, skating, or even bowling are a few great ideas for getting out and spending some quality time with each other. In 2018 if we want something different, we have to do something different. 

No more letting him/her "beat it like the 68 Jets. Give that thing some rest"! At least until you've learned more about each other and you feel comfortable moving to that next level. No pressure!